If You Love A Person For Real..

If you love a person for real, or wanting to love person for real and make your relationship long lasting, you can do this.

1. Behave the way they like
You should always be yourself though.

2. Don't do things only from your perspective
Even though from most people perspective they're the wrong side, just reconsider. But if it's really obvious that they're a weirdo, just try to speak with them.

3. When with them, get opened
Be an open person an tell them your problems to share, except the top secret ones. Save the top secret ones if you're already married.

4. Read their mind
When with them, if you feel their hands playing or moving more, that means they want your hands to hold. If you feel they're looking at you cutely, they're longing for a kiss on the cheek or forehead. When they look you deep in the eyes and face, and you feel like they're gazing for something, they just want a sweet kiss on the lips.

5. Spy on what they do
Just spy, though they didn't notice. Everything's easy. You can ask your or their friends, or facebook, or their blog. From facebook, now you can read wall-to-wall with people who hasn't been your friend. [depends on his/her privacy setting]. And if you found out they were actually cheating or doing something that hurts you..

6. Shut up for awhile
Don't get all mad and take the negative sides. Just think maybe they has a high sympathy with every people. Although you know they aren't like this usually, just try to lie to yourself a bit. Just forget the awfully hurt feeling and don't show any disappointment. They really stabs u behind, but love have the power to heal.. And along with time, it should be spoiled.

7. Don't take any liking to act
If you LIKE(not love) someone other than them, and you feel comfortable with them too, don't take it easy and act freely. Don't hold hands or anything like it. Maybe u think it's not cheating, you're just playing. But it's actually cheating. Just try to avoid that to happen even if you're really attracted and can't seem to endure the aroused feeling.

8. Just be a good boy and shut up
Connected with number 4, just shut up when they do anything they don't want us to do. For example when they really doesn't want you to avoid cheating with other person(numb 5), and on the other side you found they're talking so romanticly and acting so sweetly on facebook to the other guy/girl, just forgive. Let yourself be hurt. The power of love can really make us forgive. Unless it's starting to get worse and they admits the liking, leave. Let them be happy with their own playdoll.

9. Be loyal
If they just won't ever realize their mistake, be patient and you know you'll be hurt along your relationship, but if you feel like you don't love them fully, just admit it. Admit it and you're free. What is it worth if you don't love them to death but they're hurting you to death?

Well, that's just me and what I get from my story. Hope this helps you guys.. ^^